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Polyamory for the PracticalA Poly-English Dictionaryby RDB (plus two by Vamp)
Poly phrase:
"I don't use primary/secondary terminology, since I don't see my
relationships as hierarchical."
Poly phrase:
"For me sex is about energy, so breathing and heart connection are
more important than ejaculation."
Poly Phrase:
"I see polyamory as being more about relationships and intimacy,
while swinging is just about sex, and sex without intimacy is just not where
I'm at right now."
Poly Phrase:
"The most important thing to me is keeping agreements."
Poly Phrase:
"Even secondary relationships for me aren't just about sex."
Poly Phrase:
"Right now the most important things to me are building poly
family and intentional community."
Poly Phrase:
"In our household the most important things are open communication
and open process."
Poly Phrase:
"I don't feel that we communicate on the same level, and that you
aren't supporting me emotionally."
Poly Phrase:
"I think we should each have veto power."
Poly Phrase:
"I think that we should focus on each other for a while."
Poly Phrase:
"I want you to always feel OK telling me what's really going on in
your life, and asking for what you need in this relationship."
Poly Phrase:
"I'm not angry at you, I'm angry at myself, for not having
recognized sooner that we weren't right for each other."
Poly Phrase:
"Out of respect for our primary bond, we normally only see other
people together."
Poly Phrase:
"I think we need to process the end of our relationship and get
closure."
Poly Phrase:
"We obviously need to work on our relationship."
Poly Phrase:
"The idea of line marriage has always appealed to me."
Poly Phrase:
"So, which conventions do you like to attend, what kind of books
do you like to read, what are your spiritual beliefs, and what is your ideal
occupation?"
Poly Phrase:
"I'm needing to do some inner work, and instead of dating anyone
would rather just work on my relationship with myself."
Poly Phrase:
"Well, I'm only theoretically poly, but I already have plenty of
firmly-held beliefs about how it could be done in real life!"
Poly Phrase:
"Swinging would be way too crass for me, I'm more about
relationships and emotional intimacy."
Poly Phrase:
"All of my partners are equally important to me, and they're all
primary."
Poly Phrase:
"Our friendship is more important than anything else."
Poly Phrase:
"I'm willing to take this slow as well."
And additions by RJ Johnson, rj@xocolatl.com
Poly phrase:
"I've had to do a lot of work on that issue myself in my other relationships,
and I'd be glad to help you with it if you want."
Poly phrase:
"I really admire the way you are able to speak up for your boundaries in your
relationships."
Poly phrase:
"My other partners and I share a lot of interests but we do a lot of things
separately, too."
Poly phrase:
"My partners and I follow our own unique spiritual path."
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